Many of us are lonely, INFACT I think the number one thing that people are avoiding feeling or feeling at any one time is lonliness.
Which is kinda funny when you think about it because its like a common bond Gathering us all together.
Many of us would love to meet a partner but love illud us again and again and we stay lonely.
So how do you end this lonliness and find the love of your life?
I believe the following tips can help.
1) Remember that everything in life is attracted towards you and if something is not in your life the chances are that you are blocking it on some level. (usually not consciously)
This is what I call needs / must-scenario-for example I need a lover but I must not get hurt. This creates a push and pull scenario within us and we will end up blocking love coming to ourselves if our need to protect ourselves from hurt is greater than our need to get love. Many of us are not aware of this however.
Another way to look at is that we value protection from hurt over the chance of getting hurt again so we may find ourselves single and alone.
2) Start to unblock yourself by becoming familiar with the scenario of someone leaving you or putting you down.Imagine it if you like and feel the emotions that go along with it. It will eventually start to fade in strength and it will control you less. You will start to attract more potential partners to you.
3) Many people I know tend to stick to one scene only when looking for a partner. Try mix it up a bit and try online dating (many of my friends have found love this way), clubs, groups, as well as bars and nightclubs.
4) Try be less perfectionistic. Many of us have been told when we were younger that we were'nt good enough in some way or other and this can lead to us being perfectionistic in life. This was that we are not good enough out gets projected onto our world and we may find that our partners are not good enough and we need to move on as soon as we find fault with them. Becoming aware of the feeling of not being good enough and being willing to experience it is enough to start to shift this pattern.
5) Be ok with the idea of it not working out. I mean you have to be ok with the idea that you may not find the love of your life. I know this may sound aweful but its necessary and a possible reality for some of us. If we are frightened of this scenario The energy of avoidance of it can lead us to enter relationships that are'nt good for us or to be edgy and anxious in our current relationship.
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